Usually the first invitation to have sex is done by the husband. But in fact, the wife is also encouraged to ‘take over’. What are some ways to code to invite your husband to have sex first?
According to psychologist and sex expert, Elizabeth Santosa or who is familiarly called Lizzie, the initiative to ask for sex first from the wife can actually make the husband feel happy, you know. Keluarga
“When a partner asks for him, wants him, the husband will be happy. Feel ‘wow I am wanted, needed’. This kind of feeling is actually very valuable for the husband,” said Lizzie to HaiBunda some time ago.
The assumption that the woman who asked to have sex first meant that Lizzie said that she was aggressive was also not true.
Quoted from Flo, the wife’s lack of interest in asking her husband to have sex first, especially for fear of being rejected. Hmm, then what are the ways to code a husband that can be tried? Kehidupan keluarga harmonis
1 Get ready to wear lingerie
Quoted from Mom Junction, the use of lingerie can help increase sex drive in both husband and wife.
Apart from lingerie, you can also seduce your husband by wearing his clothes (like a shirt, for example). Mentioned wearing husband’s clothes (which are generally larger), can also increase sex drive and quality.
The important thing is, adjust it to your own comfort level, yes.
- Invite directly
When your husband looks relaxed, try to approach and ask directly: is he in a good mood for sex?
If yes, then a speed sex session can be done. But if the answer is ‘no’, staying close to cuddling can be an alternative.
3 Send the code via text message
Every now and then, try to give a sex invitation code via chat, Mother. For example, start sending messages from morning to night. This ‘code’ can also give the husband time to get ready. Keluarga Bahagia
4 Set a new atmosphere in the bedroom
A clean and comfortable bedroom will certainly make all activities in it feel more fun, including having sex.
Well, try giving another code in the form of setting a new atmosphere in the bedroom, Mother. For example, by changing new sheets or installing aromatherapy candles with romantic fragrances. Ibu dan anak
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